So, some people believe in Destiny saying that how much ever you try, only that happens what is stored in your destiny. But this provoked my thought process and i think that whatever happens to you, YOU are the cause for it. For eg. we can say that, i took education in medical field but i failed to be a good doc and instead I am a Beauty consultant today. But when we go in deep and deeper mode with honesty we actually find the exact reason and believe me its only YOU who CHOSE to be what you are today!
Hence to summarize here,Destiny is just a Bouquet of our own decisions; both good and bad. Its us, who choose the flowers, the colors, the fragrance, the paper wrap and even the thorns along with flowers. And this happens knowingly or unknowingly,but ironically its a fact! For instance, when we look back at our lives or anyone else's life we can see that always there was an option in front of that person at given particular point of time, and it was either the person himself/herself who chose the decision or was fine with what was been decided with his/her life. It can be the fear or lack of courage at that time which that person missed and these factors will count as catalysts but not the substance of reaction which gives the by-product.
To simplify we can summarize as, our life is one constant substance which comes in contact with other variable substances ( Eg: other people, study course, job,etc) and then a reaction occurs to give a by-product that is ultimate decision (like human to human for relationship, human to educational course for career etc). But here if we observe minutely and on a positive note we can see that the constant factor is WE ourself!
The circumstances, social factors, fear, lack of courage, lack of responsibility etc. all would count as just catalysts in the whole reaction. But its normal human nature to put the blame on others and so happens in this case as well. We very conveniently put the blame on catalysts, which are just enhancers and not the actual substance.
On an optimistic overview i can conclude that its we who control and decide our life, If we really want to! So if we choose wisely and overcome the catalyst factors we can be or do what we wish to.But again, when we overcome the catalyst factor we should keep our conscience alive and opt for proper and a genuine way. And i would say that Destiny and Decisions are quite synonymous, but its just two different natures of human race who interpret it according to their own choice. If you are quite optimistic, take the responsibility for your self and wanna do what u really desire then you would believe in your own Decisions and if vice-versa then its more relying on Destiny.
Eventually its a process of balance which also needs lot of patience, understanding and sensibility. And of course apt decisions only would happen after practice, trial and error.Since we realized it now we can give a try at-least. But friends remember one thing which very important throughout the process is, you need a constant and strong WILL and SPIRITS to achieve the desired by-product!!!
